9/25

So I must talk about this. I can not stand dead beat ass parents. I never understood it and having a daughter of my own I find it even harder to grasp. I look at my little girl every day and could not imagine choosing not to be in her life. There are so many people desperately wanting to be with their kids and for circumstances beyond their control they cant. My aunt is in her 40s and has a 7 year old daughter. She was diagnosed with leukemia and it was found so late that there is no way that she will ever get better. The doctors told her that no matter what treatment she got it would only give her days not years. She is starting another round of chemo, why? Because to her any extra time with her children is worth it. This is the kind of mother I am. I will fight till the day I die to stay with my children. As long as my child needs me I am going to be there for them. The reality is that the person that hurts the most is the child. The child is the one that carries it throughout their life and pays the price for your negligence. I don’t care what anyone says children need both parents actively in their life. Now don’t get me wrong I know some kick ass single parents but I am referring to the “part time” parent. The one that comes in and out just when its convenient for them. I refuse to be a part time parent or allow my partner to be one. I will not allow my daughter to pay the price for any of our mistakes. In my opinion its even worse when a mother is a dead beat. We as women are the number one thing that our children need. If you are a dead beat ass parent please for the sake of your children FIX IT! Its never to late to fix your mistakes or to even apologize for your mistakes. The hardest thing will be to realize that you have made mistakes not to apologize for them.